The vast majority of guys assume that once they’ve charmed a girl into being their girlfriend that all the work stops there – nothing could be further from the truth though guys. In fact even in the healthiest and happiest relationships in the world it still takes time and effort to make that relationship flow smoothly and to keep your girlfriend as interested in you now as she was 6 months, or even 6 years ago.
What I’m going to share with you today are some tips on how you can make your girlfriend want you more than she even realized was possible at this point in your relationship.
5 Crucial Tips On How To Make Your Girlfriend Want You More
Avoid Friend Zoning Yourself
Even though she’s officially your girlfriend there’s still the risk you can friend zone yourself by accident. Some guys step into a parenting/counseling role in a relationship, which means that you wind up treating your girlfriend like your child or a client – never do that. Your only role in your relationship is to be her boyfriend – there are professionals for everything else.
Stay in Shape
How many beautiful, but unhappy girls, do you see dating guys who have a beer gut so big it probably has its own gravitational field? I’ll clue you in on something here and that’s if you want to make your girlfriend want you sexually then be the guy she started dating when you first met, and if that means hitting the gym and getting yourself back into shape then do it. The more respect you have for your own body the more respect she’ll have for you.
Treat Her Well
If you’re smart you’ll avoid the whole “treat ’em mean, keep ’em keen” approach because that’s how teenage guys behave, not grown up men. Why would you not treat the woman you love so much well in the first place? Unfortunately the answer to that question has to do with adult peer pressure, and the desire for most guys to not appear sensitive in front of their buddies. It comes down to this guys: If you don’t treat your girlfriend well then she’ll find another guy that does – and a lot quicker than you think too!
Not every man is a natural comedian but if you are make the most of it. The reality is that women love funny men, but sometimes expect you to be a comedian the whole time – which is exhausting. If you can make her laugh then you’re already halfway to wherever you want to be in your relationship and it’s a great way to impress your girlfriend too. Keeping her amused doesn’t mean that you need to tell her jokes every hour on the hour, but if you can add a little fun to her day she’ll love you all the more for it.
Throughout their lives men and women function at different “speeds”, so what you expect to get from your relationship right now might not be what your girlfriend expects or even wants. So instead of putting her under pressure to follow along with your plans you’ll find that being patient is not just a virtue but something that women truly appreciate in their men – at least the men they want to keep around for at least a couple of years that is!
Following the advice I’ve shared here can help you even if your girlfriend is already showing the first signs that she’s losing interest in you, or you’re afraid that she doesn’t love you anymore. Everyone gets complacent in a relationship at one time or another – just make sure it’s not you!