If you’re looking for information on how to make your boyfriend want you, how to make him be more romantic and basically how to keep him interested in you then I’m guessing that you feel he’s losing interest in you? This is a natural reaction to have in most relationships at some stage, simply because once the “honeymoon” phase of your relationship is over then it can be kinda tough to keep things interesting and fresh for both of you.
So today we’re going to take a look at figuring out whether or not he’s losing interest in you, and what you can do to kickstart your relationship with your boyfriend.
4 Tips To Make Your Boyfriend Want You More
Is He Losing Interest?
What most women forget is that men react in a different way emotionally to women. Women can also read far too into small details and find a way to interpret almost anything as a sign that your boyfriend is losing interest in you. The only reason you should be concerned about any kind of warning signs is if your boyfriend’s behavior changes suddenly and stays that way, because a person’s behavior never changes without reason. Bearing that in mind please remember that just because your boyfriend seems kinda quiet for a few days doesn’t automatically mean he doesn’t love you anymore – he might just have a lot on his mind right now. If it’s really worrying you then why not just ask him does he still love you and look into his eyes when he’s answering? You’ll get all the answers you need in just a few seconds.
Reigniting The Flames Of Passion
A very common thing to happen between any couple of any age is for the sex to become a little bit routine. That doesn’t mean that you and your boyfriend don’t find each other sexually attractive anymore, but it does mean that you’ll have to put more work into figuring out how to make your boyfriend want you sexually in the same way he did when you first met. In real life what happens is that couples get comfortable around each other, and just don’t try as hard as they used to. So why not set up a date night where you start acting like boyfriend and girlfriend again and not some settled couple? This is even more important if you’re married by the way!
Making Him Love You
There’s been no end of articles published in women’s magazines on the topic of “How to make your boyfriend love you”, so I’m not going to repeat any of that here because most of the advice is biased towards a woman’s view of it and not a guy’s view – which is what I’m going to give you here. Ladies the sad fact is that you can’t make a guy love you – he either does or he doesn’t. In fact sometimes the more you try to force him to love you the more distant he’ll become – guys hate being forced into those situations. It should never be a case of making him love you – instead find out why the passion between you has died down and fix it. Sometimes it’s a simple matter of asking your guy what’s wrong – he’s probably been bursting to talk about it but could never find the right words to use.
Getting Him To Open Up
Getting your boyfriend to open up and talk to you can be one of the single hardest things for any girlfriend to achieve. You see guys are brought up to believe that you keep your feelings to yourself, and never talk about them. Yes, really. So that leaves you in a very sensitive position when you’re trying to get him to talk to you. When trying to get a guy to open up and tell you what he’s thinking patience is the key – rushing him will just force him to clam up and emotionally shut down. Don’t ever attempt to learn everything about him in one night, start with small things and work your way up from there. Once he knows he can trust you then he’ll open up properly, at which point you can talk about your own wants and needs in the relationship.
The fact that you’re in a relationship with a guy means that he wants to be with you. Instead what you’re worried about is whether or not he’s losing interest or getting bored.
Don’t try to guess what’s going on in his mind – instead you could just rely on the information that Michael Fiore shares with you in his “Capture His Heart” relationship infoproduct instead.