How Do I Make My Affair Work?

Question:

I’m a married man who’s having an affair with a married woman, although this is her first time having an affair. We’ve very close and we’ve both agreed that we’re in love with each other. The problem for me is that she’s a little bit conservative, so one day she’ll kiss me and other days she’ll feel guilty and start crying. It actually takes an argument for us to get back together and even then she’s not crazy about kissing me, although she does allow me to accidentally touch her breasts, etc.

I’m a bit confused about what she really wants from me – can you give me some advice on this and your opinion too please?

I would really appreciate any advice you can give me here.

Thank you

Chizal

Answer:

Hi Chizal,

Thanks for writing in. Well you asked me to give you some advice and my opinion on this and it’s really simple: Stop having affairs. This is the first affair this woman has had but it’s obviously not your first by the sounds of it, so she has every reason to feel guilty because she’s still married.

However your only interest is around how to get her into bed and get what you want from her, with no feelings of guilt at all!? This column is for relationship advice, and not how to psychologically manipulate women!

“What she really wants” is obviously not to be caught up in a sordid affair with you, so why not grow a pair, let her go and try to work out your own marriage too?

If you’re in an unhappy marriage then get a divorce or separation and get out of it, but stop messing up other women’s lives because you’re not brave enough to do what needs to be done in your own life.

That might seem like harsh advice but you know it’s the truth.

Marlon

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