I’m not going to waste any time here defining what “spicing up” a long distance relationship is actually referring to because the implication is pretty obvious – sex. It’s human nature to want to have physical and intimate contact with your long distance boyfriend or girlfriend and when that’s not possible it can cause stress in the relationship itself, so you need to keep a careful eye on that. There’s also the possibility that one partner has a higher sex drive than the other, which again adds a layer of complexity to any relationship.
If you find yourself having to add some spice to your love life don’t freak out about it because it’s something that every couple goes through at least once in any relationship – it’s perfectly normal.
3 Ideas To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship
There was a time when I used to travel on a regular basis as part of my old 9 – 5 job, and this often meant I was away from home for weeks or months at a time. Obviously you’re bored and lonely so you wind up wanting to relieve some stress yourself, so you do whatever turns you on and take care of business. But what can work even better is to abstain from self-gratification for about 7 – 10 days before you see your lover again, and try to convince them to do the same. Believe me this will be some of the best sex you’ve ever had because you’re both so eager and horny you’ll barely even talk for the first hour or two!
Sexting has been made really, really sleazy by all the players and pick-up artists out there, but if you use it properly it can definitely help fan the flames of passion in any relationship. Now some people are happy using far more graphic sexual imagery in their sexting but it doesn’t need to be like something a porn star would write. Instead even messages like, “I can’t wait to feel the heat of your body next to me again – I wish I could feel you right now” work really well. See – it doesn’t have to be sleazy or riddled with sexual innuendo, so just write what you’re comfortable writing about but do add as much spice as you can to your messages.
Apart from texting you do also have the options of sending sexy or suggestive pictures of yourself, or just going all out and having sex on web cam – again all of this is decided by just how comfortable you are with being naked in front of a camera of course!
When you’re so used to the routine of a long distance relationship one of the nicest treats you can get is a surprise visit from your significant other. Obviously you’ll need to make sure they’re not in work or away doing something else that day, but I can pretty much guarantee that you showing up without letting them know will put a big smile on their face. It’ll also give you both a great excuse to jump into bed together and get rid of all that sexual frustration that’s been building up for the last few weeks or months!
Do you have any ideas, tips or suggestions for how to add spice to a long distance relationship? Add your ideas in a comment below!