If you're sitting there alone wondering what the heck went wrong with you and your girlfriend then the first thing to realize is that your girlfriend didn't just walk out on you on a whim - it took her a long time to get fed up with you; women rarely leave men without having put a lot of thought into it first. And if you're really serious to get your ex girlfriend back then it's time to do some serious soul searching and being honest with yourself about some stuff you might have been avoiding for years.
You see when it comes down to it most guys want to blame their girlfriend for leaving and in the middle of a testosterone-fuelled, chest-beating argument they'll project all the blame onto her and some guys, stupidly enough, will then ring their ex girlfriend and give her both emotional barrels over the phone. You just lost her forever when you did that.
No guy ever really expects his relationship to end - even if they know the relationship is in trouble of some kind; there's a kind of fearful apathy that kicks in. That even includes the guys who spent a lot of time, money and effort chasing a particular girl until they eventually went past the point of just dating and became a couple with an eye on spending their future together.
One of the biggest problems which can plague any relationship is that couples tend to get lazy and just take what they have for granted, and men are generally more guilty of doing this than women - if they're honest about it. This laziness turns into complacency and before you know it the spark in your relationship has suddenly faded and all that's left behind is routine and then, eventually, crushing boredom.
You see I've been in your position so I know exactly how much it hurts to lose the woman you then realize you love almost more than life itself; there's nothing quite like that pain and you'd do almost anything to stop it. One of the reasons I created this site is because I wanted to share everything I'd learned about avoiding the pitfalls that ruin relationships and how you can put even the most damaged relationship back on track in almost no time at all.
It also means that by reading the information I share with you here you can avoid the kind of emotional outbursts or begging/pleading with an ex that will drive her away forever. I can help you avoid making those critical few mistakes that can be the final nail in your relationship coffin and stop you getting back with your ex girlfriend.
At RelationshipLoveAdvice.net you'll find a lot of information on the subject of dating and relationships and I've also invested a lot of time in reviewing pretty much every single dating and relationship infoproduct I could get my hands on. So instead of you having to figure out which eBook is best suited to your needs you can just check out my reviews here to save you both time and money.
Remember I'm looking at these products from a guy's perspective and I've been in situations where I've been dumped unexpectedly so I know exactly what you're going through right now.
So if you want to get back together with your ex girlfriend then take the time to read through all the information and reviews I've included here because I truly do believe they can help you achieve that goal of winning your ex back.
Plus you're not only going to learn about how to get your ex girlfriend back but to also have a healthier and happier relationship with her than you did before you broke up - this means that you can take your new relationship to higher levels of trust and love.